What would U do if U're ME?

I'm not PERFECT, and I know that..
And I come to believe that nobody does..

I'm made tons of mistake, and I regret for doing each one of them..
Though there are some mistakes that I regret doing, but still I couldn't help but to do it over n over again..
And it makes me really sad n hate myself sometimes..

I know other people would feel the way too (hopefully)..
They make mistake n regret it..n wish to never do it again..
Sometimes they succeed n sometimes they're just not..

Well,
Some of the people who are close to me often confessed their wrongdoing to me..
And most of the time, I dunno what to do except give them a piece of my mind (tho I'm really bad at this)
I've never really come up with a good advice, ever..
The things that often came out of my mind were 'SHOT', 'WHAT WERE U THINKING?', 'R U CRAZY?', 'R U SURE?', 'WEI', 'HOW COULD U?'..etc..
See, I'm a good listener, but never a good adviser..

Gosh,
If u were me, what would u do? or what would u say?
If someone close to you tell u things that u know for sure is wrong, obviously wrong..
Things like, well I dun think I should mention the example here..
But wrong things..u know..
What would u do?
How would u feel?

I really wanted to tell those people that what they've done is BAD..like REALLY BAD
and I did and they also knew it..
But somehow I don't think its enough..n for some reason, I don't think they really understand how I feel about it..
and it makes me really SAD n MAD..
As someone close to them, I feel like I can do more..
Especially when they trusted me to keep everything as a SECRET..

'PROMISE ME U WON'T TELL ANYONE!!'
See, I just dunno what to do?
Gosh, this is really hard..

It's not like I dun want to help them..

I want to..

But I just dunno HOW..

LIFE IS NOT EASY

IT IS NEVER EASY!!